HOW TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE WORK IN THE DIGITAL AGE

Technology has revolutionized the way we live, work and interact with each other. In recent years, technology has had a profound impact on relationships and marriage. The increase in technology usage has led to the growth of online dating and social media platforms, which have changed the way people meet and form relationships. While technology has brought many benefits to relationships, it has also created new challenges that couples must navigate.

One of the major impacts of technology on relationships is the increased availability of potential partners. Online dating platforms and social media have made it easier for individuals to meet new people and form relationships. This has led to a wider pool of potential partners and has made it easier for individuals to find someone who shares their interests and values. However, this increased accessibility to potential partners has also led to a rise in infidelity and the breakdown of relationships.

Another impact of technology on relationships is the way it has changed the way couples communicate. With the rise of smartphones, instant messaging and social media, couples are now able to stay connected 24/7. While this constant connection can be a positive thing, it can also lead to problems. For example, the temptation to constantly check one’s phone or social media can lead to neglect of quality time with a partner. Additionally, technology can also lead to misunderstandings and conflicts, as tone and intent can be easily misinterpreted in digital communication.

Technology has also changed the way we express and receive affection in relationships. The rise of emojis and digital stickers has made it easier to express affection in a playful and lighthearted manner. However, the overreliance on digital forms of affection can lead to a decrease in physical touch and real-life interactions, which are crucial components of any relationship.

Given these challenges, it is clear that couples need a guide to navigate through the digital challenges in their relationships. This guide should help couples understand the positive and negative impacts of technology on relationships, and provide practical advice on how to use technology in a way that enhances their relationship. For example, couples can set boundaries around the use of technology, such as avoiding the use of phones during meals or when spending quality time together. They can also make a conscious effort to prioritize in-person communication and physical affection.

Therefore; technology has had a profound impact on relationships and marriage. While it has brought many benefits, it has also created new challenges that couples must navigate. A guide to navigating digital challenges in marriage is crucial for couples to understand the positive and negative impacts of technology on their relationship and to use technology in a way that enhances their relationship. By taking a proactive approach to technology use in relationships, couples can strengthen their bond and ensure the longevity of their relationship.

BOOK REVIEWS:

"How to make your marriage work in a digital age" by Ayodele & Fisayo Adesanya is a must-read book for couples who want to maintain a healthy and happy relationship in today's world of technology.

As our lives become increasingly intertwined with digital devices, it is essential to learn how to balance our use of technology with the needs of our partners. Adesanya's book is well-researched, and the advice provided is practical and actionable.

The authors recognize that technology can be both a blessing and a curse in relationships and provides a balanced perspective on how to navigate the digital age.

The book covers a range of topics, including how to communicate effectively in a digital age, how to set boundaries around technology use, and how to deal with issues such as cyber infidelity and online addiction.

Each chapter has practical exercises designed to help couples apply the concepts discussed in the book to their own relationship.

One of the book's strengths is its emphasis on the importance of face-to-face communication in maintaining a healthy relationship.

Adesanya argues that while technology can facilitate communication, it should never replace it entirely. They encourage couples to set aside dedicated time for one-on-one interaction and to prioritize quality over quantity in their digital interactions.

Overall, "How to make your marriage work in a digital age" is an excellent resource for couples looking to navigate the challenges of modern technology in their relationship.

Adesanya's advice is grounded in research and real-life experience, and their writing style is clear and engaging. I highly recommend this book to anyone seeking to build a strong and lasting relationship in the digital age.

Akanimo Oriowo Behavioral Coach / Counselor